Quick Quiz: Helping Others with Leadership Skill Development
by: Richard L. Williams, Ph.D.
Oftentimes a quiz can be an effective learning device. For that reason consider the following questions and see what you learn. Hopefully a few questions will inspire you in the direction of improved management and leadership skill development (http://www.cmoe.com/leadership-skill-development.html). The answers are at the bottom of the column, but please resist the temptation to peak until you have given some serious thought about your answers.
1. How many hours of TV do fathers between the ages of 25-34 watch each week?
a. 10 hours
b. 15 hours
c. 20 hours
d. Almost 26 hours
2. How many hours of TV does the average non-working spouse watch each week?
a. 20 hours
b. 25 hours
c. 30 hours
d. Almost 48 hours
3. How many acts of violence will the average child have witnessed on TV by age 18?
a. 25,000
b. 50,000
c. 75,000
d. 180,000
4. How much time does the average father spend giving meaningful feedback to his children?
a. 1 minute per day
b. 10 minutes per week
c. 20 minutes per week
d. 30 minutes per week
5. How much time each day does the average married couple spend giving meaningful feedback to each other?
a. Less than 4 minutes
b. About 15 minutes
c. Approximately 20 minutes
d. Slightly more than 30 minutes
6. A psychological validation is a specific type of supportive feedback that sustains a person in some way. An invalidation is a critical or sarcastic comment that is hurtful or demeaning. On average, how many invalidations does the average teenager receive each day from: parents, friends, teachers and siblings?
a. 11
b. 21
c. 57
d. 113
7. How many invalidations would the average teenager therefore receive during his or her teenage years (13-19) from the four sources mentioned in question 5? (Do the math)
8. How many validations are you giving your young employees each day to offset the invalidations they are receiving?
9. Some psychologists believe that one effectively delivered validation can offset up to ten invalidations. How many validations are you giving your family members and your employees? How many invalidations do you give or permit others to give in your presence?
10. On average, how much feedback (supportive and corrective) do you give each of your employees each day?
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